Not really sure if most men would agree on this, I just though it’s an
email article that’s nice to blog. 
If I am to be asked this is definitely something that’s sad but true
about relationships, not that I’m admitting of committing such mistake,
but life is long and who knows??
As my famous saying goes ..”I’m not an angel, nor a devil.. I’m just a
MAN!. But no mater what, I always have a choice.”
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The biggest OBSTACLE of LOVE..is .CHEATING….sad but true!!
A lot of men who are in serious relationships
usually end up cheating after a couple of years.
The reason is simple; men stuck in long-term
relationships feel they are missing out on
something. Most of the time, these men cheat
because they are frustrated and need to get it out
of their systems.
Men also like to explore and try new things. The
benefit in this case is that once men do cheat,
they realize that it is nothing special and probably
won’t do it again. This prevents them from being
unfaithful later on when the stakes are higher (like
when they have a family).
HOME SWEET HOME?
When people are in a relationship for a long time,
they can’t help but start taking their significant
other for granted. Sometimes they forget just how
great the woman they have really is. Men forget
how wonderful it feels to have someone who
loves them unconditionally. Cheating usually involves
lustful feelings of physical attraction; nothing long- term.
The result is that once men are unfaithful, they will
lie in bed and think relentlessly about their
unsuspecting partner. Why? Because the lust
factor has worn away and the reality didn’t
measure up to the fantasy. Instead, they
remember the good reality; the woman who loves
them, bakes them cookies and makes love to
them. The old saying “you don’t know what you’ve
got till it’s gone” says it all.
NOTHING LASTS FOREVER?
The most underrated benefit of cheating is that it
opens a man’s eyes to the realization that his
relationship is no longer nurturing and should be
terminated. Some people remain blind to the fact
that their relationship is “on the rocks” and the
only way they can finally realize that it’s not going
to work out is through cheating. It’s a shame that
some men have to go to this extreme to see the
reality: that they’re no longer satisfied with their
situation.
Let’s face it, nothing lasts forever and about 95%
of relationships, married or not, end (i.e. if you date 9
women before you ever marry, your failure rate is
90%, assuming the marriage lasts). When you do
break up, you will probably have a lot of regrets,
especially concerning all the girls you missed out
on — especially if she’s a six-foot tall Swedish
model or very cute Japanese girl-next-door look.
So what did you learn from my point of view? That
cheating is disrespectful towards the person
you’ve cheated on, but at the very least, it has two
beneficial aspects to it.
FIRST, that you’ll realize your mistake and
appreciate your lover a lot more after the horrible
deed.
The SECOND is that cheating can help you realize
your misery within your current relationship, and
will likely give you that necessary shove to move
on and stop wasting both your lover’s and your
own time.
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